You are in bed with your woman and often wonder how to make her orgasm. You do not need to feel weird if you feel you do not make her orgasm as much as she should. While some men are able to make their women orgasm three to four times, others struggle to make their partner orgasm at all. Makin your woman orgasm multiple times is not such a big deal if the right spots and the right actions are done.

You need to make you woman go crazy in bed or you stand the risk of losing her to another man. Love is great and so is sex, but a mix of the two gives perfect satisfaction and happiness. Some of the ways to make your woman have multiple orgasms are discussed below. There is the physical and mental aspect to it and if diligently followed, you are sure to have you woman wanting more of you in bed.

While orgasm has to do with the physical stimulation of some vital spots in the body, some mental work can also help in giving a woman strong orgasms. Having your woman involved emotionally does not just give orgasms, it gives strong orgasms. This can be achieved by getting a little frustrated and this does not involve going to the extreme of making her very angry. A little aggressiveness will do. Have you wondered why angry sex is always great? Well, you got your answer.

The physical stimulation to give the woman multiple orgasms has to do with the vagina and the clitoris. The G-spot is the point of attention here as stimulating this area is the key to orgasm.

The magical spot is located some 2 inches on the upper wall of the vagina and just below the clitoris. It can be stimulated with your fingers, the penis, or sex toys.

When you use your fingers, the finger is inserted and the spot located after which a slow and steady sturdy massage is given to the area with attention to what pleases your partner the most. The finger approach is a very good way of giving multiple orgasms to your woman.

You can also use your penis to stimulate the G-spot in a bid to giving multiple orgasms as stated earlier. This is best achieved through sexual intercourse. It helps to be adventurous and try out different sex position to determine the one that pleases her most and continue doing it. The doggie style has been found to easily give a woman multiple orgasms as the penis contacts the G-spot every time.

You can also try out oral sex by licking the vagina. This best combined with the use of the finger of you want her to reach her climax fast and frequently.

A woman doesn’t always want to have crazy sex in adventurous places and outrageous positions, although most women wouldn’t say no every once in a while. Sometimes all a woman wants is to feel in charge in the bedroom, and there’s no easier way than trying out new and different girl on top positions.

Starting simply with the “Cow Girl”, your partner is on top, facing you. This allows a deep penetration and also clitoral stimulation; you can also further arouse your partner by gently touching her clitoris either with your hand or her vibrator. Many women find that this is the only position in which they find it possible to reach their climax, making it very popular with the fairer sex.

This position can easily be modified to the “Reverse Cow Girl”, where your partner faces the opposite direction. The man can control the woman’s movements by gently guiding her hips with his hands, or he can lie back and let her call all the shots. This position can be less intimate as you are not facing one another, though it can allow for a much deeper penetration, especially if your partner leans forward to put her head between your knees.

If you prefer more intimacy during sex, why not try the “Lap Dance”? Ask your partner to start off by giving you a strip tease and lap dance while you’re sat up straight on a chair. She can straddle your lap and allow you to enter, and then she can control the pace by slowly moving her hips. This position can progress if she wraps her legs around your torso, or turns around to face away from you, giving an even deeper penetration. This position can also be recreated in your bed by leaning right up against the headboard.

Lastly, the “Squat” may not be the most flattering position for her, but it gives her the most control of her orgasm. This works similarly to the “Cow Girl”, though she controls entry. She lowers herself towards you with her feet flat on the bed either side of your body. Using her thighs she moves herself on top of you completely at her own pace, and you have absolutely no control, this can be incredibly arousing for you both. Let her bring herself to climax as you lie back and enjoy the view.

It shouldn’t be a shocking revelation that women desire and appreciate your effort to communicate with them, but it may be a shock that this does include talking about sex. The best way to move your sex life forward is to begin by talking. Ask her what she wants and likes; begin by sharing your own fantasies to encourage her to do the same. If you find it difficult to approach the subject or start a conversation, it can be much easier to physically show each other what you want.

Another easy way to stir things up in the bedroom is by introducing sex toys. There are huge ranges of different kinds of toys available, so it should be easy to find something that excites you and your partner. Light bondage in the form of fluffy handcuffs or a spanking paddle can be a good starting point, which can help you to discover what you and your partner enjoy and allow you to progress onto something a bit more wild.

When you’re both ready to try something slightly more adventurous, why not ask your partner to introduce you to her vibrator? She can show you what she likes when she’s alone and you can try out new things together. Remember, vibrators aren’t just designed for women; once you know what you both enjoy, go shopping together for your perfect toy. If you’re feeling reluctant to walk through your local town centre and awkwardly ask a shop assistant for advice on what to buy, there are a number of great online shops where you can browse together for as long as you want to find your perfect cock ring, butt plug or dildo.

Adventure sex is sex outside or in a public place, which is perfect for stepping up your sex life if you love the thrill of possibly getting caught or the possibility of being seen. If you’re shy start small, try having sex in different rooms of your house, for example on the sofa or in the shower. This could then progress to getting frisky in your car before you’re ready to do it in public. Do be careful and aware of your surroundings though, always stay safe and also be aware that heavy petting in public can get you into trouble if you’re spotted by a police officer; but maybe that’s part of the thrill.

The female orgasm is often thought to be a myth, a story of legend or a fantastic fictitious invention designed to tease and deceive us. The female orgasm is not a myth; you just need to know where to find it. First things first, there is no secret formula to produce results every time or which can be applied to every woman; though there are a number of ways you can help her achieve her peak.

You need to make sure your partner is completely comfortable; it’s essential for a woman to feel relaxed before she can fully be “in the moment”. Set the mood in your bedroom, and let her set the pace during foreplay. Rushing straight into having sex before she’s properly “warmed up” is a sure fire way to leave her disappointed.

Secondly, you need to know where and how to stimulate your partner to guide her along. Most women can achieve orgasm most easily through a combination of clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration. There are eight thousand nerve endings in the clitoris, twice as many as can be found in your own intimate area, so this is an area not to be ignored. During foreplay, the clitoris can receive even more intense contact by gently lifting the clitoral hood, for extremely concentrated pleasure.

It is important to remember to be gentle with your partner, start slowly and softly and let her set the pace. Especially when in direct contact with the clitoris, don’t be too heavy handed when stroking, fondling and caressing her intimate area, or you’ll completely destroy the mood and you can even cause your partner slight pain or irritation. If your partner is ready for you to speed things up, let her take the lead and show you how she likes it. Every woman likes to feel in control, and if she can increase the pace and slow things down in her own time, she’s sure to find her spot quicker than you’d think.

It’s also important to know that your partner isn’t only aroused by contact with her vagina. There are erogenous zones all over the female body, including behind her ears, her thighs and knees and her collarbones and neck. Ask your partner where she likes to be kissed and stroked and target these areas during intercourse to be sure to help her on her way.