Having sexual fantasies are more common than most people think and the situation where thoughts or images of what a person wants during sex and what gets them aroused sexually are very common in our society today. Most fantasies are against the moral and ethical beliefs of most people and the thought of some of these actions are just out of this world. The truth however remains that sexual fantasies are normal and having sexual fantasies does not make one immoral or a bad person.

Study shows that men and women have diverse sexual fantasies and just a few fantasies are actually considered rare or unusual. It however reveals that men have more fantasies than women and in fact, more women go for the submission theme of spanking, being tied up, and even forced to have sex.

While most women with sexual fantasies especially those with the submission theme reveal that they will rather not live the fantasies, most men would actually love to have their fantasies come true. It is discovered that most men fantasize more about extramarital relationship than women and this is not surprising as men have been discovered to be polygamous in nature.

So what is regarded as normal when sexual fantasies is being discussed? Some of the most common sexual fantasies are listed below.

Men and women fantasize about getting sexual pleasure and satisfaction from being tied up.

About 10 percent of men and as little as 3.5 percent of women fantasize about their partner urinating on them and a good number of men and women would love to be filmed or photographed while in the act.

Fantasizing about homosexual activities is another normal sexual fantasy with more women fantasizing about getting down with their feminine folks.

Sexual fantasies however vary depending on the individual and the situation and what is considered a normal sexual fantasy in a certain place or situation might be viewed otherwise in some other situations.

A sexual fantasy being common does not necessarily mean it is normal and having a relatively rare sexual fantasy does not make one abnormal or bad.

The fact however remains that having sexual fantasies is normal and you are only human to have fantasies. While some fantasies are brought to reality and lived through role playing and some other activities, other sexual fantasies remain abstract and the person fantasizing only gets to imagine the act and that is all there is to it.