A woman doesn’t always want to have crazy sex in adventurous places and outrageous positions, although most women wouldn’t say no every once in a while. Sometimes all a woman wants is to feel in charge in the bedroom, and there’s no easier way than trying out new and different girl on top positions.

Starting simply with the “Cow Girl”, your partner is on top, facing you. This allows a deep penetration and also clitoral stimulation; you can also further arouse your partner by gently touching her clitoris either with your hand or her vibrator. Many women find that this is the only position in which they find it possible to reach their climax, making it very popular with the fairer sex.

This position can easily be modified to the “Reverse Cow Girl”, where your partner faces the opposite direction. The man can control the woman’s movements by gently guiding her hips with his hands, or he can lie back and let her call all the shots. This position can be less intimate as you are not facing one another, though it can allow for a much deeper penetration, especially if your partner leans forward to put her head between your knees.

If you prefer more intimacy during sex, why not try the “Lap Dance”? Ask your partner to start off by giving you a strip tease and lap dance while you’re sat up straight on a chair. She can straddle your lap and allow you to enter, and then she can control the pace by slowly moving her hips. This position can progress if she wraps her legs around your torso, or turns around to face away from you, giving an even deeper penetration. This position can also be recreated in your bed by leaning right up against the headboard.

Lastly, the “Squat” may not be the most flattering position for her, but it gives her the most control of her orgasm. This works similarly to the “Cow Girl”, though she controls entry. She lowers herself towards you with her feet flat on the bed either side of your body. Using her thighs she moves herself on top of you completely at her own pace, and you have absolutely no control, this can be incredibly arousing for you both. Let her bring herself to climax as you lie back and enjoy the view.